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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 10:37:21 SatOct 23 2004 )

I'm up to date on my T person bill for the first time in a long time. My T person says this is a really positive step for my healing. Not to mention his wallet.

  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 12:04:07 SatOct 23 2004 )

I am not a victim! :claphands:

  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 16:03:29 SatOct 23 2004 )

This is our homecoming weekend. The good news is this year I only invited one person to the dance rather than the seven from last year. Baby steps along the way to having a life! :beerchug:

  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 14:23:24 SunOct 24 2004 )

I'm pregnant with Zackie's child.

  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 16:41:49 SunOct 24 2004 )

Congratulations to Zachery and his better half. We may have to figure out how to pass out cyber cigars.

My husband startled me for the second time this week by offering to rearrange his schedule so I could attend an appointment with him at a time that was more convenient for me. It was the first time I can recall him offering to do something like this. Usually we have a huge blow up and he gets his way.

  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 11:08:48 MonOct 25 2004 )

Congrats Zachery and his better half. :partyfrog:

Last night I demonstrated that I could perform the kicks I learned in a Taekwondoe sparrring session. I am surprised, stunned might be a better word, that I have enough coordination to do this, at least so far. I will be eligible to test up to a lower yellow belt at the testing on November 7th. Its kind of cool and is also helping with my social skills and to a degree making small talk. All good things, I think.



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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 11:54:19 MonOct 25 2004 )

I have the day off from work because my office space has been overtaken by constructor workers remoldeling the place. So I might treat myself to some time in my new sauna and see if sitting in the damned thing will help me understand why it bothers me so much that my wife spent the money to buy it.

  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 10:43:29 TueOct 26 2004 )

My, my how time flies. Today is the one year anniversary of our positive steps thread. :birthday::happybdaycake: We didn't exactly make our goal of 1,000 posts on time, but we made it and that says something. That we've gone beyond the initial target is even more impressive. I've heard from a lot of you who've really enjoyed seeing a thread on a positive track so I hope it continues as long as it serves a purpose of healing.

My positive today is something that I hope turns out to be positive but I admit to having some lingering doubts. The days are getting shorter and darker and I since a change in my body. At my suggestion I'm returning to zoloft for the next few months. I hope like heck this is the right thing to do. :wink:



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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 15:18:05 TueOct 26 2004 )

I have been approved for a management training program in this company. Finally a chance to make real money for a change/

  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 15:23:06 TueOct 26 2004 )

I found $10 in the gutter during my morning walk. Its the first time I've ever found money other than a few pennies and dimes. I need some good luck right now so hopefully more is to come soon.

  
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