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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 06:30:53 SunDec 5 2004 )


There are no short cuts to any place worth going.

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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 17:12:50 ThuDec 9 2004 )

This is one of those mornings where I think just being alive, getting out of bed and being able/willing or something to face the day counts as a positive.



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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 17:42:44 ThuDec 9 2004 )

My last Final was yesterday.

Take a slow, deep breath. I have a life again! :partyfrog: At least until next semester begins.

  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 21:15:37 FriDec 10 2004 )

My ex-wife left a message on my voicemail this morning saying she has concluded she has issues that still need working on is going back to therapy. Her efforts to work on herself have been on again and off again so I'm pleased to hear she's once again progressing. This is even more of a positive for our children but I count as one for myself as well.

  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 19:56:00 MonDec 13 2004 )

I'm finished with my Christmas shopping. The internet is such a wonderful thing. Now I can spend the entire week having a nervous breakdown until fall term grades are posted.

  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 21:41:35 WedDec 15 2004 )

The other day I took a chance and started a communication with my oldest brother. He's the second oldest in our family and about nine years older than me. We've never really had any kind of a relationship at all. There have been efforts in the past but for one reason or another they've never developed into anything meaningful. I just received his reply and on the surface it sounds as though he's done a lot of growing of his own and is looking to make a connection. Kind of a nice touch for the holidays.



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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 15:58:02 FriDec 17 2004 )

I actually felt a need to be hugged yesterday afternoon and took the chance of asking a friend to do it. I'm not sure I've ever asked for a hug before. I've got to admit it felt good!



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You do not need to be loved, not at the cost of yourself. The single relationship that is truly central and crucial in a life is the relationship to the self . .. Of all the people you will know in a lifetime , you are the only one you will never lose.

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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 17:19:07 SunDec 19 2004 )

I gave myself an early Christmas present and spent yesterday at one of these all day spa places. I really felt great afterward and I think its helping me to connect with myself. :bubblebath:

  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 18:16:23 SunDec 19 2004 )

Its come to my attention that its been a long while since I posted a positive, so here's my holiday contribution to the cause. I received my annual performance review at work about 10 days ago and actually accepted the areas they say I need to improve as a way to make myself better rather than a threat and a way of rejecting me.

  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 18:22:21 WedDec 22 2004 )

There seems to be something very unusual in the air with my family. I'm beginning to see people are not what i've always thought them to be . This is a wonderful way to experience the holidays and its something I hope continues to grow in 2005 and beyond.



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