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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 14:11:40 MonJan 17 2005 )

I made an honest effort to spend yesterday being present in the moment all day long. It was hard in the beginning but as the day went along I think it was getting easier. It was nice to not have to worry about what's past or what might happen some day in the future. :frankenstien:



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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 21:42:37 MonJan 17 2005 )

There's no school today and at my kid's request I played hookey from work and we spent the morning watching Harry Potter DVD's. There are some days when we all need to get in touch with our inner child. I feel good :claphands:

  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 21:46:52 ThuJan 20 2005 )

I allowed myself to be vunerable to my emotions this morning and listened with an open heart to someone I know wants me to be more intimate in our relationship. It was a terrifying experience, one that now that its over has left me feeling more alive. :claphands:



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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 21:01:56 FriJan 21 2005 )

I was voted the most eligible bachelor in my dorm.

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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 19:04:53 MonJan 24 2005 )

I started this day by renewing my committment to have my life be lived from a perspective of love. I feel less tension in my body and my blood pressure is lower than it has been since I've been monitoring it. :bubblebath:



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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 19:56:21 MonJan 24 2005 )

I had a FABULOUS weekend with my boys. Got a break in the cold weather so we spent almost two hours outside yesterday and played a lot of Hungry Hippo when inside!!

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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 23:20:06 WedJan 26 2005 )

Last night my husband apologized to our son for not making it to his game. This has got to be a first! I'm not sure who was more surprised, my son or myself? Its one of the more encouraging things I've seen in a long, long time. I just wish I didn't have a voice wondering what is motives might be. I know this is something I have to work on myself. I guess doubt is just deeply engraved even though I'm making a real effort to be supportive.

  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 22:55:04 ThuJan 27 2005 )

My ex and I had lunch today and actually laughed for the first time since I don't know when. We didn't fight about all the old stuff. I guess we were both just kind of there in the moment to the best of our abilities.

  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 16:55:15 FriJan 28 2005 )

I've gotten back to a regular routine of beginning my day with a 30 minute meditation. Since beginning this I have felt less tension, less need to be defensive and I suppose less need to let my ego rule my life.

  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 19:37:36 SatJan 29 2005 )

My brother has asked me to be the best man at his wedding. Lesson number one on how to make older bro proud

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