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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 19:56:21 MonOct 27 2003 )

I just got a reasonably clean bill of health from my dentist. No new cavities, but one of my old fillings is about to fall out. Not bad for someone who has seriously neglected my teeth for a long, long, time. Someone must be looking out for me. :biggrin:

  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 00:58:40 TueOct 28 2003 )

Its springtime here. Today I looked out of my window and there were two blue-tongue lizards in the yard (they are about 60 cms - 2 feet - long and they have bright blue tongues). The female seems to have taken up residence under a rock and I think that we may soon be having the patter of tiny lizard feet. It felt good to be watching a part of nature right outside my window and reminded me of how much I love living here.

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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 02:12:22 TueOct 28 2003 )

I had a great time a Job Club today! It's always fun and a great way to start the job seeking week. I made several new acquaintances there.

I also completed another cover letter and resume and got them turned in. I got some excellent help and feedback on the cover letter from some very knowledgable people.

I have a job interviedw at 8:30 tomorrow morning for the temp position. They'll be interviewing several folks. I'm prepared to not be "the one" for the position.

Weissfamily, I loved your multi-tasking story. Good job keeping your sense of humor about it all.

Jimmie, I'm so tickled for you and your son.

Cheers!
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 02:22:26 TueOct 28 2003 )

I feel T-E-R-R-I-F-I-C! Today, my husband and I took a vacation day and it was truly a PAJAMA DAY! No children arguing or calling my name, car in the garage and not having to go any place in particular.

I thank God for family, health, employment and food on the table. :spinsmile:

Peace & balance,

Nandi

  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 04:13:40 TueOct 28 2003 )

A positive step I took in my healing today is that I let something go. At first I kept pushing to be understood - and when it looked like that was not going to happen - i let it go - after a little time, of course (I'm not THAT healed yet!).

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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 04:48:25 TueOct 28 2003 )

I just remembered today that when my situation was a its worst I actually prayed for a miracle, and then I was able to get the courage to do what I needed to do, and that's when things started to turn around for the better. Some things turned around much better than I could have ever thought they would, so it seems like a miracle to me.



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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 11:38:31 TueOct 28 2003 )

Yesterday afternoon I attended my second Sufi Dance known as The Universal Dance of Peace. This time I found the courage to participate rather than observe. I have zero coordination and its a very, very rare occassion for me to risk doing something like dancing in public. I'm glad I did as it was a truly wonderul experience of peace and harmony. I was having such a wonderful time that I didn't object to being a few minutes late to Monday Night Football. :peace:

Having a Life, I hope you've been able to resolve your log in problems but if not I sent you an email to the account that you registered for this board with. Hopefully we'll being "seeing" you soon. :cookiemonster: Good luck on your job interview.

Balbrenny, a blue tounged lizzard! Cool :biggrin: Its great to see the wildlife. My Mother and her new husband live in a place which attracts several dozen Quail a day in their backyard. Its comical to watch these little birds running around and having a great time.






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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 13:28:21 TueOct 28 2003 )

Last night I hugged my new girlfriend and it didn't feel threatening. In fact if felt really good. :puppylove:

  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 14:34:03 TueOct 28 2003 )

I thank the Lord for blessing me to awaken to a brand new day. A day that I have never seen before or will ever see again!

Peace & balance,

Nandi

  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 15:41:57 TueOct 28 2003 )

This weekend inspired me and I decided to get up early and go for a walk. I've been meaning to start daily walks for a long time and today was the day. I'm ever grateful for the calling to get out of bed and walk as I was treated to a glorious sunrise over the ocean. It reminded me of giving birth to life. These little things inspire me to live life to its fullest.


  
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