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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 16:19:25 SunMar 28 2004 )

I have to ask why doing all nighters is a positive? Are you tgrying us or yourself here? :evil:

I've started a new relationship with someone who I guess is special to me. We've gone out a couple of times and she spent the night last night. Down, zachery.

  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 04:32:45 MonMar 29 2004 )

All-nighters are an accomplishment for me. Lol... there's no other way to put it. And I never even got tired during the second day. My physiological system must be so messed up by now.... blah.

As for today, I made a mousetrap car out of materials that I bought at Home Depot. I used the drill and saw and everything. These DYI things are HARD work, I never realized.

I've also had the idea to create a stroller for my little doggy. Currently my design is to make a little wooden cage with a top, bottom, and struts on three sides and then a little wooden door that swings outward. That would be connected to a long pole that comes diagonally upward to the person driving the stroller. And the cage itself would roll on three wooden wheels.

Lol. It's for my little sh-t-zu dog, who sometimes gets tired on long walks since her legs are one tenth the size of a person. :biggrin:

Anyway, onwards...


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You know, of course, where this other world lies hidden. It is the world of your own soul that you seek. Only within yourself exists that other reality for which you long. I can give you nothing that has not already its being within yourself... All I can give you is the impulse, the key. I can help you to make your own world visible. That is all.
- Herman Hesse, Steppenwolf
 
 
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 02:59:53 TueMar 30 2004 )

I'm going to do my level best to be positie. I'mm, trying to improve my internet access but going wireless. So far the damned software isn't working and the tech support is incompetent. I'll be back more after this gets resolved, hopefully in the morning. In the meantime I'm thinking its good I haven't reached through the phone and strangled the techies. That 's my best effort at a positive.

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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 22:44:35 TueMar 30 2004 )

Two more days until spring break!

Hope all of you are well,


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You know, of course, where this other world lies hidden. It is the world of your own soul that you seek. Only within yourself exists that other reality for which you long. I can give you nothing that has not already its being within yourself... All I can give you is the impulse, the key. I can help you to make your own world visible. That is all.
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 23:23:19 TueMar 30 2004 )

Matt, I hope you're planning on being active on something other than NPD during spring break. I'll say you're adjusting well to the obsession on vacations found in the American public schools that you're forever berating :cookiemonster:

My computer is still a freaking mess with me finding new ways to avoid blowing my stack. I have to laugh because one techie complimented me on my patience this morning. I believe this was a first and it definitely counts as a positive. :evillaugh:

  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 20:36:34 WedMar 31 2004 )

ONE day until spring break.




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You know, of course, where this other world lies hidden. It is the world of your own soul that you seek. Only within yourself exists that other reality for which you long. I can give you nothing that has not already its being within yourself... All I can give you is the impulse, the key. I can help you to make your own world visible. That is all.
- Herman Hesse, Steppenwolf
 
 
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 22:13:02 WedMar 31 2004 )

testing, testing.

I just threw this in to amuse Matt as break looms on the horizon. :evillaugh:. There are still little techincal problems with the wireless stuff but at least its working sometimes.

I just learned that I am being called in for another round of interviews at the juvenile alternative corrections center. I really, really, really want this job so I'm as excited as a little kid in a candy store. The interview is Friday morning, which I shamelessly add is also my birthday. Please make checks payable to Anthony Brown :evil:



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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 22:42:09 WedMar 31 2004 )

Lol. That's the way, Tony.

I'm also happy today because my tennis coach has returned to DC from the Tennis Masters Series - Miami, where he was watching Roger Federer and other top players. Now he gets to play with me - what a lucky guy :wink:


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You know, of course, where this other world lies hidden. It is the world of your own soul that you seek. Only within yourself exists that other reality for which you long. I can give you nothing that has not already its being within yourself... All I can give you is the impulse, the key. I can help you to make your own world visible. That is all.
- Herman Hesse, Steppenwolf
 
 
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 14:48:01 FriApr 2 2004 )

Sprink Breag has finally arrived! Yay!!


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You know, of course, where this other world lies hidden. It is the world of your own soul that you seek. Only within yourself exists that other reality for which you long. I can give you nothing that has not already its being within yourself... All I can give you is the impulse, the key. I can help you to make your own world visible. That is all.
- Herman Hesse, Steppenwolf
 
 
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 21:43:00 FriApr 2 2004 )

Happy birthday, Tony. Hope your interview goes well.
Have a nice break, Matt.

I've finished my tax preparation and am ready to meet with the accountant.

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