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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 12:48:14 WedApr 28 2004 )

It's Wednesday morning and I'm getting my work done for school, rather than missing the day.


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You know, of course, where this other world lies hidden. It is the world of your own soul that you seek. Only within yourself exists that other reality for which you long. I can give you nothing that has not already its being within yourself... All I can give you is the impulse, the key. I can help you to make your own world visible. That is all.
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 18:15:54 ThuApr 29 2004 )

My physical health problems of this past week have made me much more appreciate of the friends and family around me. I've been thinking a lot both about the people in my real life everyday world and the people in this community. I think I've come closer to reaching my soul during this period and I'm anxious to share more as my strength returns.



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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 01:17:52 FriApr 30 2004 )

I'm going to make it to school tomorrow, and that will be the first time I've gone to school every day of the week for a long long time. Yay for me! :wink:


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You know, of course, where this other world lies hidden. It is the world of your own soul that you seek. Only within yourself exists that other reality for which you long. I can give you nothing that has not already its being within yourself... All I can give you is the impulse, the key. I can help you to make your own world visible. That is all.
- Herman Hesse, Steppenwolf
 
 
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 14:55:36 FriApr 30 2004 )

I had a date with a boy my own age last night (up until know anyone showing any interest was considerably younger - I know, poor me). Anyway, it went really well. We are both in a position where it would be nice to have someone, but nothing serious (he just ended a 7 year relationship about a year ago). Neither one of us is ready for anything but a good time. It's nice to both be on the same page...

Hope everyone has a good weekend planned. I'm hanging with my baby boys!

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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 17:57:00 FriApr 30 2004 )

Good for you, Mel,

I slept for 14 hours last night. It made me feel much better.


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- Herman Hesse, Steppenwolf
 
 
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 22:59:39 FriApr 30 2004 )

Hey everybody-- things are crazy so I don't have much time but wanted to post about what just happened. Had a guy come do an estimate for a fence two years ago, and when he came in to give my my estimate, I offered him a cup of coffee. Long story short, I finally called him again and of course it had been so long he needed to do a new estimate. He gave me a price break because I had been so nice and offered him a cup of coffee. (He had his wife with him tonight so this shoots a hole in my husband's theory that men are only nice to me because they want to have sex with me.) Anyway, that was a cup of Joe worth a couple of hundred bucks, and it wasn't even Starbucks!

Sometimes nice guys DO finish first...

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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 23:45:28 FriApr 30 2004 )

Had a quiet day and I'm about to go play some tennis. Also got a couple of good new computer games to have fun with.


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You know, of course, where this other world lies hidden. It is the world of your own soul that you seek. Only within yourself exists that other reality for which you long. I can give you nothing that has not already its being within yourself... All I can give you is the impulse, the key. I can help you to make your own world visible. That is all.
- Herman Hesse, Steppenwolf
 
 
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 17:29:24 SatMay 1 2004 )

I did a lot of Catculus this morning. Now I've got my stretch of 5 hours of tennis coaching coming up. I might also go out for dinner with my tennis coach afterward. Which means I'd have to activate myself AGAIN to have an extended conversation with another person in the outside world. Geez... :wink:


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You know, of course, where this other world lies hidden. It is the world of your own soul that you seek. Only within yourself exists that other reality for which you long. I can give you nothing that has not already its being within yourself... All I can give you is the impulse, the key. I can help you to make your own world visible. That is all.
- Herman Hesse, Steppenwolf
 
 
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 18:59:46 MonMay 3 2004 )

The positives have really slowed here people. Don't make me be the lead cheerleader. My ray of sunshine is that my T person complimented me for keeping him on task when he was focused on something way, way outside of my own healing. I guess this is cool that I can see what's important.

  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 20:21:44 MonMay 3 2004 )

I played my tennis coach in a set and lost 6-4. That's pretty damn good and I was hitting amazingly well. So that's my positive for today.

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You know, of course, where this other world lies hidden. It is the world of your own soul that you seek. Only within yourself exists that other reality for which you long. I can give you nothing that has not already its being within yourself... All I can give you is the impulse, the key. I can help you to make your own world visible. That is all.
- Herman Hesse, Steppenwolf
 
 
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