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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 15:19:12 ThuJul 15 2004 )

Congrats, free_of_fem, that's got to be a good feeling. :wave:

I am engaged in a struggle with a parent of one of the kids I work with. This is the kind of thing which in the past has ticked me off to the point that I end up telling the parent EXACTLY what I think of them. So far restraint has led to us at least being semi-civilized. This has got to count for something positive.

The other positive is that I've had it. The 360 second monster has given way to a 60 second stopper.

Let's here it all around, one big cheer

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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 16:49:26 ThuJul 15 2004 )

I've not acted on my recurring desire to really hurt my ex. It doesn't get any more positive than that.

  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 19:46:09 ThuJul 15 2004 )

Just visited Charlottesville to meet a possible therapist.


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You know, of course, where this other world lies hidden. It is the world of your own soul that you seek. Only within yourself exists that other reality for which you long. I can give you nothing that has not already its being within yourself... All I can give you is the impulse, the key. I can help you to make your own world visible. That is all.
- Herman Hesse, Steppenwolf
 
 
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 02:22:56 FriJul 16 2004 )

I was at Megan's house, and I was in the bathroom brushing my teeth. Her cat walked by the door as I was doing this. When she did this, she looked at me and gave this adorable "meow" and then kept walking on her merry way. It made my night.


  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 03:00:19 FriJul 16 2004 )

Experiment #2:

:ahappyN: :cloneofyourfavoritenpder: :dontfeedthetrolls: :knockonwood: :nshowingrestraint: :onfire: :partyfrog: :rotflmao: :tantrum: :givemebeer:

The different faces of femfree:

:gloat: :whatfemfreeseesinthemirror:

I'm dead sexy. Get in my belly.


Lol, anyway, the real positive is that I got one therapist visit out of the way, two more to go.

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You know, of course, where this other world lies hidden. It is the world of your own soul that you seek. Only within yourself exists that other reality for which you long. I can give you nothing that has not already its being within yourself... All I can give you is the impulse, the key. I can help you to make your own world visible. That is all.
- Herman Hesse, Steppenwolf
 
 
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 15:37:02 FriJul 16 2004 )

Matt, you watch too many movies... :smile:

I get a paid day off to golf.... What else could I want.

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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 16:39:51 FriJul 16 2004 )

Friday is here :partyfrog: It dosen't get any more positive than this.



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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 17:24:13 FriJul 16 2004 )

Mel, where do I sign up to get one of those hardworking jobs? :bubblebath:

Saturday is my oldest's birthday. We have a full weekend of sleepover, movies and shopping planned. I hope I'm standing when this is over.

  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 23:45:53 FriJul 16 2004 )

I've got good news and bad news.

The bad news is that I had another Doo doopy day, and there my life is generally boring and unnoteworthy.

The good news is that I just saved a bunch of money on my car insurance by switching to GEICO.

I saved. I SAVED.

I thought that meant something to you guys...


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- Herman Hesse, Steppenwolf
 
 
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 00:10:11 SatJul 17 2004 )

Quote: Mlashtok at 23:45:53 Fri Jul 16 2004

I've got good news and bad news.

The good news is that I just saved a bunch of money on my car insurance by switching to GEICO.

I saved. I SAVED.

Matt


Hmm, interesting to know there is something more to GEICO than kindof cute ads. One always wonders about this cute advertisements.

I had a great friday. Partied all morning, took a nap this afternoon. Now its dinner time. If only every day were this good. :ohwell:



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