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    Re: Wanting to save marriage ( 17:11:57 WedAug 6 2003 )
    Mark, there is a book that has helped me immeasurably to understand the situtation from both sides; it's "Stop Walking on Eggshells" by Paul R. Mason, M.S. and Randi Kregler - worth it's weight in gold.

      
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    Re: Wanting to save marriage ( 15:56:26 ThuAug 7 2003 )
    Mark- I want to thank you for sharing so openly about what is clearly a very painful experience for you and your family. I don't have a great insight to share, but something you said touched me a great deal. That being that cars are only objects and how you love your wife truly. This is a powerful statement to make under any circumstances but even more so for where your at. I would be lying if I said I understand love, but I believe there is some truth to the idea that love makes the world go around. I hope that your love is one day very soon returned and that you and your family find happiness.

      
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