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"The Secret in healing Narcissism is not to heal it at all, but to listen to it. Narcissism is a signal that the soul is not being loved sufficiently. The greater the Narcissism, the less love being given." ~ Thomas Moore, 'Care of the Soul'.
Q. Is it really possible to heal NPD?
A. Anything is possible. You do not have to be a negative statistic on a probablity curve of people with Narcissistic Personality Disorder
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What is it about the OW? ( 21:15:52 FriSep 24 2004 ) |
My exbf has some serious NPD traits, emotional immaturity and lying being the two most obvious. About 3 months into our relationship, he started seeing his exgf. For 2 years he went back and forth between us. He has taken her on several vacations, had her host parties at his house, the works, but he would always end up at my doorstep when the parties and vacations were over. I have recently ended all contact with this man. My question is why would he need to keep her in his life (they have been "together" for about 7 years)? He has left her to start 4 relationships which have obviously never worked out, but always has her around. What is the draw to this woman who he claims is not "veil material"? Is she like a mother figure to him? He has done some pretty hurtful things to her, but God love her she still hangs in there.
Thanks for this forum, I have gained so much insight into this disorder.
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