Who is the rude one here?

Who is the rude one here?
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siblygirl
12:26:55 Tue
May 3 2005

Who is the rude one here?

Dear Annie: While playing bridge one afternoon at my house, one of the gals proposed we all visit her condo in Florida. People often issue invitations without being specific, but to our surprise and delight, we later received a group e-mail inviting us to visit next month. We all replied "yes."

That same day, however, I received a separate e-mail from her. She said if I had any manners at all, I would have refused her invitation since I was only an acquaintance, and she included me solely because she was in my home at the time of the initial invitation. She also told me I needed lessons in manners. Is she right? Who is in need of manners? -- J.N.

Dear J.N.: Someone should inform this clueless and rude woman that you do not issue invitations in front of a group if you don't intend to include everyone. Maybe she needs to go back to kindergarten and learn that lesson again.

retro_chica
23:32:49 Tue
May 3 2005

Re: Who is the rude one here?

Gee, that woman is a real bitch! :devil:

:devil:

I mean, she includes the letterwriter in an invitation that was not intended for her - and then she actually has the audacity to chew the letterwriter out for actually accepting the invitation?! :ugone2far:

:ugone2far:

Gee, this woman makes me sooo angry! :headbang:

:headbang:

If I was the letterwriter, I would have written this bitch back and chewed her out good. :rolleyes:

:rolleyes:

Then I would maybe ever even have told her to go 'fuck herself'! :devil:

:devil:

Then I would have forwarded her letter to all the other members. :devil:

:devil:

Sorry, I usually don't like using the f-word - but this woman is a (Language Screen)REAL blank blank :mad:

:mad:

Retro, I modified your post… our new members are very polite and respectful and don't use such trashy language… I should wash your brain out with soap! if I could! :tongue:

:tongue:

I am moderating all rude language from here on in! Cheers! Debbey :wink:

:wink:

tragicallyhip_babe
02:43:48 Wed
May 4 2005

Re: Who is the rude one here?

Oh, gee, just how anal retentive can one get? :rolleyes:

:rolleyes:

Keep Hipping! :smile:

:smile:

April_Garfunkel
05:28:07 Wed
May 4 2005

Re: Who is the rude one here?

Gee, what the bloody hell was this person thinking? :ugone2far:

:ugone2far:

You don't invite someone over - and then accuse them of being rude for accepting instead of declining, because you never intended for them to accept! That is such bloody uncouth behaviour! :rolleyes:

:rolleyes:

jimbo9
13:15:56 Wed
May 4 2005

Re: Who is the rude one here?

She obviously doesnt know the meaning of good manners or sensitiviities!

retro_chica
21:53:53 Wed
May 4 2005

Re: Who is the rude one here?

What a pampered and spoiled prima donna she is! :ugone2far:

:ugone2far:

TragicallyHipper
22:39:33 Wed
May 4 2005

Re: Who is the rude one here?

Oh, yes, what a bloody jerk she is! :devil:

:devil:

:cheering:

AprilWineChick
02:22:43 Thu
May 5 2005

Re: Who is the rude one here?

Yes, she is a total and complete jerk! :rolleyes:

:rolleyes:

:babyblue:

SarahJane
04:44:01 Thu
May 5 2005

Re: Who is the rude one here?

Gee, that is so low! :ugone2far:

:ugone2far:

~ Sarah Jane

Hipster
06:06:04 Thu
May 5 2005

Re: Who is the rude one here?

What an arrogant prick! :rolleyes:

:rolleyes:

Hi Lovely, Hipster, do you think you could come up with a different adjective to describe this person :wink:

:wink:

Thank you! Cheers! Debbey :wink:

:wink:

SarahJane
21:10:45 Sat
May 7 2005

Re: Who is the rude one here?

Yeah, really! :ugone2far:

:ugone2far:

~ Sarah Jane

Hipster
02:33:11 Tue
May 24 2005

Re: Who is the rude one here?

What do you suppose Miss Manners would have said? :wink:

:wink:

tragicallyhip_babe
04:15:08 Tue
May 24 2005

Re: Who is the rude one here?

Well, in regards to Retro Chica's responce - she maybe would have said the Retro is sinking to that woman's level with that comment.

Keep Hipping! :smile:

:smile:

LegendaryBeautyWoman
18:49:06 Wed
Aug 3 2005

Re: Who is the rude one here?

ITA

:rolleyes:

TragicallyHipper
04:32:59 Thu
Aug 4 2005

Re: Who is the rude one here?

Regarding Retro Chica or regarding the original post? :cheering:

:cheering:

LedZeppelinHarmony
19:35:53 Tue
Oct 11 2005

Re: Who is the rude one here?

I agree that the lady who issued the invitations was way out of line. However, cussing her out really is not the answer, no matter how tempting it may be. You know how Miss Manners feels about returning rudeness with rudeness.

:dazzler:

:dazzler:

TragicallyHipper
01:42:48 Wed
Oct 12 2005

Re: Who is the rude one here?

Yeah, and I agree with Miss Manners on that, too. Retro, you really should watch your mouth. I agree that the lady was, to put it mildly, not very nice. However, that doesn't mean she should be cussed at. It is better just to take the high road, in situations like that.

:cheering:

:cheering:

jessiebabe
01:39:17 Thu
Oct 13 2005

Re: Who is the rude one here?

I might write back and tell her to go take a long walk off a short pier - but I wouldn't cuss at her.

BobCaygeon
19:42:15 Thu
Oct 13 2005

Re: Who is the rude one here?

Yeah, I would tell her that what she did wasn't very nice, but I think swearing at her is a bit over the top.

Keep on rockin'. :canada:

:canada:

TragicallyHipper
02:17:37 Fri
Oct 14 2005

Re: Who is the rude one here?

Right, I totally agree with you, BobCaygeon! :cheering:

:cheering:

canadabound
03:03:16 Thu
Oct 20 2005

Re: Who is the rude one here?

I would have just said, 'Well, don't you think it's rude to hand out invitations to people who you have no intention of inviting?' I wouldn't have cussed at her, although I can see where it would be rather tempting to do so. You would sinking down to her level, though, if you were to do that.

CanuckYank
14:48:08 Thu
Oct 20 2005

Re: Who is the rude one here?

Anybody want to play devil's advocate on this one? :wink:

:wink:

canadabound
18:23:00 Mon
Jan 2 2006

Re: Who is the rude one here?

Oh, no, not me! There is just no reason for that lady to act the way that she did.

hipgurl
19:32:50 Mon
Jan 2 2006

Re: Who is the rude one here?

I would just write back to her and say, 'Oh, silly me, I had no idea that it was ever rude to accept an invitation. You should not have invited me, if you didn't really mean it. I'll just show up, anyway. What are you gonna do about that, huh? You certainly can't say that you didn't invite me.'

Holly_Green
04:15:32 Wed
Jan 4 2006

Re: Who is the rude one here?

I would respond the way CanadaBound suggested.

SarahJane
02:40:24 Sat
Feb 11 2006

Re: Who is the rude one here?

Whew, I like Hipgurl's suggestion!

~ Sarah Jane

HighwayGirl
02:07:27 Sat
Jun 17 2006

Re: Who is the rude one here?

I would just write back and say this:

You are the one who acted out of line! You should not have invited me, if you weren't sincere about it!

:rasta:

:rasta:

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