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siblygirl I'm Asleep ![]() 1000147 posts ![]() Mood Now: ![]()
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Dear Prudence,
Apparently my face seems to have a serious or sad demeanor. Not that I feel this way all the time, but I guess that's how it appears because men keep walking up to me saying things like, "Why are you so sad/serious?" So I say something like, "None of your business," or "I don't want to speak to you." People close to me say that I am being too blunt, but personally I think that they are rude and out of place. To me it's just a lame pickup line, and they just want one thing (most men do anyway). It's also insulting, and on my bad days, when I am really not in a good mood, it drives me close to cursing. If I were a man, I swear it would lead to a lot of fist fights. Am I wrong? —Live and Let Live Dear Liv, You are not "wrong," exactly, but you sure are angry. There are clearly underlying feelings of discontent and distress manifesting themselves on your face. That you choose to interpret the concern of others as rude behavior or lame pickup lines validates, for Prudie, the dark cloud you are living under. (Some people might actually welcome the inquiry and, perhaps, the opportunity to vent a little.) You should bear in mind that most men do not select a girl who looks like she's on her way to a root canal as the ideal candidate to hit on. It is possible that you are antisocial, misanthropic, or in need of a good shrink. The crux of the matter is that the problem lies with you, not the people (men?) who are wondering why you look so sad or serious. —Prudie, analytically
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silver_linings I'm Asleep ![]() 1745 posts ![]() ![]() ![]() Mood Now: ![]()
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Well, I guess it depends on how the men are asking them.
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paulgro I'm Asleep ![]() 686 posts ![]() ![]() ![]() Mood Now: ![]()
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This woman seems to have a chip on her shoulder when it comes to men…
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Oowatanite I'm Asleep ![]() 2965 posts ![]() ![]()
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well, my question would be, how are these men asking it?
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Dr_Pimple I'm Asleep ![]() 105 posts ![]()
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Dear Liv,
Dr. Pimple proposes that you take a nice trip to Fantasy Island. ~ Dr. Pimple
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silver_linings I'm Asleep ![]() 1745 posts ![]() ![]() ![]() Mood Now: ![]()
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I really think she does need to lighten up.
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AprilWineChick I'm Asleep ![]() 7847 posts ![]() ![]() Mood Now: ![]()
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She sure does.
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hipgurl I'm Asleep ![]() 1664 posts ![]() ![]()
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She seems to have some kind of personal vendetta against men.
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Swan_Song I'm Asleep ![]() 1727 posts ![]() ![]() Mood Now: ![]()
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She seems to be a bit sexist when it comes to men.
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AprilWineChick I'm Asleep ![]() 7847 posts ![]() ![]() Mood Now: ![]()
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Yeah, she does seem very uptight.
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Holly_Green I'm Asleep ![]() 1246 posts ![]() ![]() Mood Now: ![]()
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Yeah, she really should cool it.
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