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april_wino1
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Re: Why aren't you married? ( 18:23:22 SatAug 21 2004 )

That's a good one, Julie. :wink:



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april_wino1
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Re: Parents hold savings hostage to get daughter to marry ( 18:27:02 SatAug 21 2004 )

These parents do seem very stubborn. :tongue:



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Emily_Garfunkel
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Re: Nosy People ( 18:12:49 SunAug 22 2004 )

Oh, I love Renee's style!! :pumpkin1:



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Emily_Garfunkel
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Re: Parents hold savings hostage to get daughter to marry ( 18:19:17 SunAug 22 2004 )

Paul is right - this is very old-fashioned thinking. :pumpkin1:



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Oowatanite
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Re: Parents hold savings hostage to get daughter to marry ( 10:48:01 TueAug 24 2004 )

well, that was back in the days that women were oppressed.



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retro_chica
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Re: Parents hold savings hostage to get daughter to marry ( 00:14:55 WedAug 25 2004 )

I would have told these parents off!! :mad:



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hipgurl
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Re: Parents hold savings hostage to get daughter to marry ( 16:00:26 WedAug 25 2004 )

Actually, I don't think that would be a very smart thing to do.



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Swan_Song
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Re: Parents hold savings hostage to get daughter to marry ( 18:55:57 WedAug 25 2004 )

They're just as bad as my parents - they refuse to accept me for who I am. :angel:



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Swan_Song
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Re: Nosy People ( 19:08:48 WedAug 25 2004 )

Yeah, I'm with Renee on this one. :angel:



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AprilWineChick
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Re: Parents hold savings hostage to get daughter to marry ( 20:37:51 WedAug 25 2004 )

Yeah, her parents are being very manipulative. :babyblue:



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AprilWineChick
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Re: Nosy People ( 20:58:27 WedAug 25 2004 )

Yeap, Renee's way is the best. :babyblue:



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Holly_Green
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Re: Nosy People ( 22:40:08 WedAug 25 2004 )

I'm with Julie.



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retro_chica
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Re: Nosy People ( 01:25:46 ThuAug 26 2004 )

Well, I'm glad most of you support me. :wink:



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retro_chica
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Re: Parents hold savings hostage to get daughter to marry ( 03:55:10 ThuOct 7 2004 )

Actually, I would maybe take it up with a lawyer.



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Holly_Green
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Re: Parents hold savings hostage to get daughter to marry ( 03:29:45 ThuOct 14 2004 )

I'm not sure what I would do - if I was ever in that situation.



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Peggy_Garfunkel
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Re: Parents hold savings hostage to get daughter to marry ( 04:37:00 SatOct 30 2004 )

That's a good idea, Renee. :juggle:



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Holly_Green
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Re: Parents hold savings hostage to get daughter to marry ( 00:51:30 SunOct 31 2004 )

Actually, Abby has a good idea about contacting the bank manager.



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Todd_in_Toronto
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Re: Parents hold savings hostage to get daughter to marry ( 01:43:14 SunOct 31 2004 )

I do agree, Holly! Otherwise, if that doesn't work - then I would suggest bringing it up with a lawyer.



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siblygirl
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Catch-All Topic ~ Criticisms of people choosing to not have children ( 02:43:31 TueJan 11 2005 )

Dear Annie: I read the letter from "Child-Free by Choice." I am 50 years old and never had the slightest desire to have children. My aunt once told me that I was selfish not to provide my mother with grandchildren. Here's what I consider selfish:

1. Women who have children they can't afford and expect the rest of us to pay for them.

2. Women who have children while married to, or involved with, men who

abuse them. These men are highly likely to abuse the children, too.

3. People who have children hoping to save a failing relationship.

4. People who keep having children because they are trying for a particular sex.

5. Alcoholics and drug addicts who continue to drink and do drugs while pregnant, knowing the effects it could have on the child.

I'm glad some of us realize we are not parent material. -- Child-Free and Happy

Dear Child-Free: You aren't the only one who thought so. Read on:

From Connecticut: I'm 38, my husband is 43, and we've been married five years. Neither of us has a burning need to reproduce. Two years before our wedding, my husband noticed a couple in their mid-40s, enjoying themselves on a docked boat. The name of the boat? "Instead of Kids." That did it for us.

East Coast: I was married at 18, had my first child at 19, and my third at 25. When I asked to have a tubal ligation, I was told, "You're too young. Wait until you're 30." On my 30th birthday, I asked again to have the surgery and was told to wait three more years. All this time, I've been taking either birth control pills or injections that put me at risk for blood clots and stroke, and have kept my weight and blood pressure up, just to keep me from having that extra kid I don't want. I love the children I have, I just don't want any more.

Midwest: I'm 41 years old, married 11 years. I have no urge to put on excess weight, throw up in the morning, have swollen ankles and go through hours of labor. I believe people are jealous that I have a higher standard of living and a more carefree lifestyle. I come and go as I please. I buy whatever I want or need. They, on the other hand, have to plan their life around the needs and wants of their children.



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april_wino1
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Re: Not selfish to not want kids ( 03:42:03 TueJan 11 2005 )

I don't see anything wrong with not having kids, either. :unno:



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