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When You Are a Twin or Triplet ( 05:56:14 TueJun 22 2004 )

Have you ever wondered what it feels like to be a twin? Are you a twin and wonder why everyone thinks it's so special? It's fascinating to think about multiple births. There are many unique and wonderful aspects to being a twin or triplet (or more)! Read on to understand why there are multiple births and what it's like when siblings are born on the same day.

You're Not Alone
If you're one of a set of twins or more, you may feel like you're pretty unique and special (and you are), but you're not as different as you may think. Believe it or not, there are lots of kids with brothers and sisters who share a birthday. In 1998, there were more than 55,000 sets of twins and more than 2,300 sets of triplets born in the United States.

Just for comparison, in 1980 there was one twin birth in every 80 to 90 births. Today it's closer to one in every 40 to 45 births. The number of triplets born in the United States from 1980 to 1995 has tripled! No, that's not a joke - it's true that there are 3 times more triplets today than there were 20 years ago. And, don't forget about higher-numbered multiple births, too. The number of quadruplets (four kids), quintuplets (five kids), sextuplets (six kids), and even septuplets (seven kids) is also on the rise.

Types of Twins
There are two kinds of twins - fraternal and identical. The difference comes from the way the egg is fertilized when a woman becomes pregnant. In fraternal twins, two different eggs are fertilized. With identical twins, one fertilized egg splits into two. That's why identical twins look exactly alike and share the same genes. If you have friends who are twins and you have trouble telling them apart, they are probably identical.

Fraternal twins often don't look alike and only share approximately half of the same genes. They can even be different sexes. Perhaps the most famous twins in the spotlight today are President Bush's daughters. Fraternal twins Jenna and Barbara Bush don't look alike and have separate interests. One goes to college in Texas and one in Connecticut. Jenna wrote for her high school paper, while Barbara played sports. Being a twin doesn't mean you have to be exactly like your sibling!:bounceorange:



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siblygirl
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Re: When You Are a Twin or Triplet ( 05:56:44 TueJun 22 2004 )

Why Am I a Twin or Triplet?
Even though the exact reason for multiple births is not known, doctors and researchers have identified several reasons why they probably happen. Sometimes multiple births run in families. Doctors think that it's more common for a woman to have a multiple birth when one has already occurred in her family. People used to believe that multiple births skip generations (meaning that if your grandmother is a twin, your mom probably isn't, and you could be), but that is just a myth.

According to research, women who are taller, heavier, and African-American are more likely to have twins. If a woman has already had fraternal twins, chances of her having another set is 4 times higher than for a woman who hasn't had twins. However, the main reason why the number of multiple births is on the rise is because of fertility medicine. Some women who have trouble getting pregnant take medicine to help them conceive. These medications often increase the likelihood of multiple births (60% of triplets are conceived with the help of fertility drugs). Remember the McCaughey septuplets born in Iowa in November of 1997? Their mom was taking fertility medication when she became pregnant with them.

Troubles With Twins
Twins and triplets don't always get along. Sibling rivalry is common among all brothers and sisters - and multiples are no different. In fact, being the exact same age as your sibling might make competition between you two (or three or more!) even more intense. You might have the same friends, teachers, and coaches who don't think of you as individuals.

"People always think of me and my two brothers at the same time. They never just think about me. Also, many people assume that if Brendan and Devin are really good in science, then so am I, and that's not necessarily true," says Christy, a triplet from New Jersey.

It can be really frustrating when people constantly compare you to or always associate you with your sibling. If you are having trouble dealing with these feelings, talk to your parent or another trusted adult about it. Together, you can come up with a way to solve the problem, like maybe painting the half of the room you share a different color, getting a new haircut, or trying a new afterschool activity.



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siblygirl
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Re: When You Are a Twin or Triplet ( 05:57:41 TueJun 22 2004 )

Why Am I a Twin or Triplet?
Even though the exact reason for multiple births is not known, doctors and researchers have identified several reasons why they probably happen. Sometimes multiple births run in families. Doctors think that it's more common for a woman to have a multiple birth when one has already occurred in her family. People used to believe that multiple births skip generations (meaning that if your grandmother is a twin, your mom probably isn't, and you could be), but that is just a myth.

According to research, women who are taller, heavier, and African-American are more likely to have twins. If a woman has already had fraternal twins, chances of her having another set is 4 times higher than for a woman who hasn't had twins. However, the main reason why the number of multiple births is on the rise is because of fertility medicine. Some women who have trouble getting pregnant take medicine to help them conceive. These medications often increase the likelihood of multiple births (60% of triplets are conceived with the help of fertility drugs). Remember the McCaughey septuplets born in Iowa in November of 1997? Their mom was taking fertility medication when she became pregnant with them.

Troubles With Twins
Twins and triplets don't always get along. Sibling rivalry is common among all brothers and sisters - and multiples are no different. In fact, being the exact same age as your sibling might make competition between you two (or three or more!) even more intense. You might have the same friends, teachers, and coaches who don't think of you as individuals.

"People always think of me and my two brothers at the same time. They never just think about me. Also, many people assume that if Brendan and Devin are really good in science, then so am I, and that's not necessarily true," says Christy, a triplet from New Jersey.

It can be really frustrating when people constantly compare you to or always associate you with your sibling. If you are having trouble dealing with these feelings, talk to your parent or another trusted adult about it. Together, you can come up with a way to solve the problem, like maybe painting the half of the room you share a different color, getting a new haircut, or trying a new afterschool activity.



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Re: When You Are a Twin or Triplet ( 08:03:30 TueJun 22 2004 )

Actually, I have a twin sister - an identical twin. Unfortunately, we're not together right now. She's in a mental hospital being treated for depression. She should be getting discharged in a few weeks, though. Her name is Jenna. Our patheitic excuse for a father really did a toll on her. She'll be living with us, though, when she gets diischarged - which I'm really looking forward, too. She's younger than me by four minutes.

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Re: When You Are a Twin or Triplet ( 08:38:29 TueJun 22 2004 )

Glad she'll be home soon. It will be better being with family then the hospital. Don't forget to bring her here…:weights:



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Re: When You Are a Twin or Triplet ( 12:49:10 TueJun 22 2004 )

Can she sign up, now? Does she have internet access at the hospital? I really would love to meet her, as well, Hipster.

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Re: When You Are a Twin or Triplet ( 23:04:58 TueJun 22 2004 )

It's sad that Jenna is depressed - but I'm glad that she'll be getting discharged in a few weeks.

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Re: When You Are a Twin or Triplet ( 04:40:43 ThuJun 24 2004 )

I haven't met Jenna, yet - I'm really looking forward to meeting her, though. :cheering:



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Re: When You Are a Twin or Triplet ( 02:03:30 FriJun 25 2004 )

Actually, they don't have internet access at the hospital. Well, I'm sure they do, but it's not accessible to Jenna - but I will definitely let her know about this board when she gets discharged. She'll be getting discharged two weeks from tomorow. She really loves music, alot - and we have been sending her some tapes by various Canadian artists, including the Hip. She's doing good, now, though. :wink:

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paulgro
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Re: When You Are a Twin or Triplet ( 06:10:53 FriJun 25 2004 )

Tell her you know a talking Cup. That should get her here!! :wink::weights:



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TragicallyHipper
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Re: When You Are a Twin or Triplet ( 07:23:35 FriJun 25 2004 )

Oh, we'll do that for sure, Paul. :wink: :cheering:



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paulgro
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Re: When You Are a Twin or Triplet ( 06:19:05 SatJun 26 2004 )

:coffee::weights:



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Re: When You Are a Twin or Triplet ( 11:01:57 SatJun 26 2004 )

:rasta:



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Re: When You Are a Twin or Triplet ( 07:33:56 TueJul 6 2004 )

:wink:



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Re: When You Are a Twin or Triplet ( 07:52:09 TueJul 6 2004 )

:america::weights::lol:



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Re: When You Are a Twin or Triplet ( 21:54:04 TueJul 6 2004 )

That sounds neat. :cheering:



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Re: When You Are a Twin or Triplet ( 07:20:00 WedJul 7 2004 )

:headscratch: You hearing things?? :listening2music::weights:



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Re: When You Are a Twin or Triplet ( 22:06:22 WedJul 7 2004 )

:lol:



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