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SashasMum
11:47:16 Mon
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I may be a bit quiet for a while folks sorry! Life is really messing with my head just now!!

I have had to come off long term pain medication and am suffering severe withdrawal, Rob is away (but home tonight hopefully) and to top it all my ex hubby (*********) is being an absolute toss-pot just now and causing all sorts of trouble! :screams:

At the moment I am being threatened with no maintenance for kids and solicitors etc because he can't have his own way! Do you know, sometimes I have to think really hard as to why I divorced the git! :screams:

Anyway, I promise to get back on form as soon as I can stop feeling sick and thinking violent thoughts about certain exes!!:screams: :screams: :screams: :screams:



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Hope you're soon feeling much better Karen, I'm sure Sasha will give you lots of boxer love to try to cheer you up - you could always arrange for a group of us to set our dogs on your ex, not that they'd do much more than lick and slobber him to death :smash6:



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OMG Karen this is so weird. I too have stopped (just about) a form of pain signal blocker that I have been on for 3 years. the side effects have been really bad for a few months. I know exactly what you are going through and you have my phone number if you want to talk. (I mean that). As for your X hubby kick him in the b***s! Dont let the b****r get to you. When he does it means he's wone! I know only too much that it's easier said than done but!!!!! been there , done that and got the T-shirt. Keep your chin up. You are a lovely pearson, dont let him beat you down. Hugs (((((((((())))))))))



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jacquie
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Just a thought

I'm sure the guy's here wont mind me talking for them?!
Above all dont ever feel alone, were all here for you!
Keep strong and keep intouch.
Paul, where's your baseball bat?????



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Yep Karen
We are all here for you. Remember your ex is the sicko.
If my Henry was still alive I would send him across to you - he would soon sort your ex out, Henry acted before he thought!

Investigate about a herbal alternative for your problem - a good health shop should be able to help you.

Take care - thinking of you.

Helen

  
SashasMum
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Thanks ladies! What meds did you come off Jacquie? Mine was a 240mg a day codeine habit!!

CSA are my new best friends and I am trying to get some legal advice without having to sell the kids to pay for it!!

Just come down with a cold and, to cap it all, been to Dr today and I may have come down with shingles! Apparently my immune system is trashed and my body has given up! Hopefully it is just normal cold sore virus (but on my chest!!) - waiting to see if anymore sores arrive!

Rob still hasn't arrived home! He was due home 6pm Monday but, as any self respecting service wife will understand, things didnt go quite to plan, with aircraft breaking down all over the place!! Anyway, he should be flying civvy into Prestwick today sometime - so fingers crossed on that one!

Thanks for all the kind words - they mean a lot when you are feeling this low!!

Good luck with coming off your meds Jacquie - you go girl!!!



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jacquie
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Oh Karen poor you! I hope it doesnt develop into shingles!
Im coming off Imipramine 100mg at night. Trying to cut down on the dihydrocodine 8 a day, been on them for 4 years and feel they dont work as well as they did. I've added Propranolol to my list though! LOL if you shake me I rattle.

Hope you get your ex sorted and Robs home to give you a cuddle.

Take care! You know my number if youu want a chat



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Hi Karen

Sorry to hear you are going through such a hard time at the moment.

I hope Rob gets home today to give you an extremely well deserved cuddle - you sound like you really need it.

As for your ex - try not to let him get to you too much - after all thats why you got him out of your life in the first place - don't let him upset you. Like Jacquie said if you do it means he has won.

I hope you feel better soon.

Lots of sloppy boxer kisses from Henry.

Caroline, Tia, Kirei and The Henry Monster xxxx


  
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Rob finally got home tonight at 7pm, so you still may not hear much from me :wink:

Luckily it turned out not to be shingles, same virus that caused it, but less severe (basically a cluster of cold sores on my collar bone!!)

Rob heads off again on 13th to USA, so making the most of the few days we have as a family!!

As for ex hubby - haven't heard from him again - think it was because I supported his idea for a solicitor and offered any help I could, including sending letters from the children etc!! I also mentioned that I had kept a copy of all this correspondence - probably why he darent email again!! Peace! I have still reported him to CSA now, so he can never use the children's maintenance as a weapon again - best bit is, he will now have to pay them directly!! Talk about making him feel small!!! Yipeeee



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Jakes_mum
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Glad to hear your getting on top of things again. Keep your chin up.

Liz

  

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