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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 02:26:11 FriAug 27 2004 )

For the first time in a long time I have hope that one day my husband might be able to feel emotions shared by all persons. This is in large part based on what I have seen in this community, so I say thank you.

  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 02:46:40 FriAug 27 2004 )

Its cool we reached the 1,000 post mark. I think we should have a party. Oh Barbie, where arth thou? :npdhumor:

I'm getting my ass settled into a routine now that school has started. I'll enjoy the routine for a few days and than I start bitching that its boring. But that's a negative in a positive thread, or something like that. God i'm sick.

Matt, sorry to say there's not much white water rafting aroundhere. It was pretty mellow, but still cool.

  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 03:06:58 FriAug 27 2004 )

I've been reflecting on finally having reached the 1,000 post mark and I think all of you who've offered positives have really made this a more powerful healing environment and for that I thank you. Maybe the biggest positive in the first 1,000 is that we only had one instance of flamming and that was very early on (back in the first 100 posts). I think its cool we were able to keep this so positive and I think we should keep this thread going for as long as we have positives to add.



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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 11:15:37 FriAug 27 2004 )

I am experiencing some peace and calmness with what is happening with my parents and myself.

  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 15:09:31 FriAug 27 2004 )

I actually had a good night sleep with no dreams. The first time in what seems like a LLLOOOOONNNNGGGG time. Talking with people has helped but I think there is still something very important that I need to listen to happening within my sub-conscious.



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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 16:02:47 FriAug 27 2004 )

I'm still drug free. The sailing has been a bit rought, but here I am.

  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 17:17:24 FriAug 27 2004 )

Its great to see we really did reach 1,000. Just in time for Labor Day like we planned :biggrin:

I have a three day weekend for two weeks in a row because our server at work crashed and I don't think the tech people want us to watch them cry. So I'm just doing stuff around the house, enjoying the fact that this mess is someone else' problem.

  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 21:13:28 FriAug 27 2004 )

0 days. It's time for me to leave... I'm gonna strap myself in and hope this college thing turns out well.


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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 16:57:23 SatAug 28 2004 )

Good luck in college Matt and all others who are beginning or continuing this odessy. I think you all have the potential to go far. Relax, don't think you have to know everything from day one. These are the best years of your life (or so they say). If you think you are having problems don't be afraid to ask for help before a major crisis hits. Enough of my lecture, back to the positive thread.

My big positive is that I had another date with my new friend. We went to a movie called the Weeping Camel. I was there from start to finish and really have no idea what the hell was going on. I still enjoyed the company and that's more important than if anything else made even remote since.



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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 17:03:10 SatAug 28 2004 )

It looks as though I missed the big 1,000 post celebration :ohwell:

So tell me, did this Barbie from Hell appear? :devil:

My positive is that I have been trying to do stuff in the real world rather than hide behind the computer ALL the time. Mixed results so far but at least I'm making an effort.

  
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