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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 23:32:05 WedFeb 4 2004 ) |
My positive is that I am so darn sad and grieving... At the gym, the instructor talked about sledding this weekend with her family and her neighbors, and all I could think is, "That's it. That's the life I thought I was going to have with my husband." You know, having fun, not worrying, letting the weekend be the weekend, doing things with other people. Instead, I spent that same day reading The Emotionally Abused Woman and trying to dig out of the mess that is my bedroom and kitchen, because when I get sad and grieving I get very sloppy. But at some point today, it hit me that this is what feeling your feelings is all about. I don't need to wallow over much-- I have childcare for tomorrow so I can clean things up a bit-- but yesterday's marriage counseling was hard and it's ok to spend some time just mourning. In a weird way, I think this is one of my biggest positives yet.
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 21:29:46 FriFeb 6 2004 ) |
My lawyer tells me it looks as though things will work out in the aftermath of my problems last week. He had a discussion w/ the DA and they seem willing to drop one charge of solitication and only press the drug charge. They're willing to plea to probation on that since I'm in therapy. This won't be final until it goes to court in about a month but I'm going to grab it. It might be an odd positive but I think it qualifies.
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