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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 18:35:44 TueJun 29 2004 )

The last couple of days I've been dealing with a summer cold. This is normal for me at this time of year. Usually I ignore it and go about my life. This year I decided healing includes taking care of my body so I stayed home today and I'm kind of messing around the house. My daughter's best friend seemed surprised to find me at home and asked if I had taken early retirement: :cookiemonster: Don't I wish.

  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 18:57:58 TueJun 29 2004 )

My hamster Wiggy got stuck in the tube complex that we had bought for him, so we had to send in Ivy, the other hamster, to try and push him out. That didn't work because they met each other somewhere in the middle of the whole mess of tubes and decided to stop and have a cleaning session. It was funny because we had to deconstruct the whole thing down to the smallest piece before Wiggy would come out. But we got him finally! :spinsmile:

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You know, of course, where this other world lies hidden. It is the world of your own soul that you seek. Only within yourself exists that other reality for which you long. I can give you nothing that has not already its being within yourself... All I can give you is the impulse, the key. I can help you to make your own world visible. That is all.
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 20:09:44 WedJun 30 2004 )

It's time for my tennis clinic. I'm having a bad day and so my tennis will be either great or awful. Hopefully the former. I've been watching Roddick on TV, so I have some ideas for my serve today. :evillaugh:


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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 21:55:09 WedJun 30 2004 )

I'm off to North Dakota to listen to really loud music, possibly damage my hearing, probably get a sunburn and just generally carouse!

I'm just going to pretend I'm a teenager for the weekend.

Have a good one!

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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 22:32:00 FriJul 2 2004 )

To begin with happy fourth of July. For readers outside of the USA who're unfamiliar with this time I think Cam summed it up best last year when he said he believed the 4th was when the yanks beat the tar out of Brits butts. Whatever it is the modern result is a long weekend that has many of us not working until Tuesday (so it may be slow around here).

Include me on the list of absent memembers. I leave late tonight to spend three full days with my shaman deep in the Bitteroot Mountains. This should be interesting as I have so much I want to say when in fact I know I'm going to listen with my heart and soul. I hope to have something to share with myself and others upon my return.

BT, I've always wondered why North Dokota exists and now we now. :cookiemonster:




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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 23:02:13 FriJul 2 2004 )

My tennis coach and I are going to see Farenheit 9/11 tonight. I'm interested because it has an anti-Bush slant, or so he says. We'll see.

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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 19:58:37 SatJul 3 2004 )

I've seen Farenheit and think EVEYONE should. If you know Michael Moore you know he hates Bush and takes pride in being a Liberal. Kind of like me. :smile: Bake to healing, TC I'm really anxious to hear more about this weekend with your Shaman. It sounds as though you're moving in an interesting direction.

I'm spending all day Sunday and MOnday with my family. I'm listing this here because of the old theory that I hope its more positive then I fear it will be. Cross your fingers and say a prayer.

  
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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 23:50:06 SatJul 3 2004 )

I saw the movie, and yes it did make Bush look really bad. It also convinced me that Michael Moore is a fat loser who is very biased.

The positive is that I'm getting places with my college plans. I'm planning what courses to take, and I'm going out to do some shopping for my room tonight. I'm both excited and scared about the prospect of moving away.


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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 18:50:35 MonJul 5 2004 )

Just thought I'd let you know my hearing is in tact. My throat is not doing so good, but that's a sign of a good weekend!

ND put on a heck of a party. I'm tired, broke and unbelievably relaxed!

Hope everyone had a good fourth of July (and a good July 1st for those Canucks of us in the crowd!)

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Re: 1,000 positive stepping stones on the path to healing ( 16:31:07 TueJul 6 2004 )

Michael Moore is very biased, which is why I and many others love him. He is no loser. He makes no false pretenses, what you see is what you get. He's been at this long enough that anyone who expected anything else, well.....

I had a great weekend with my Shaman. I feel as though I'm still coming down off an emotional high. A high of living. Maybe this is something that I'll never come down from? Time will tell on that front. I'll talk about this much more when I find the most appropriate way to put this weekend into words.

P.s.- I checked and see North Dokota is still on the map. I was a little concerned that party might blow it right off the face of the earth. :evillaugh:




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